Thus, the article's title was originally 'I Hope They Still Dance After Giving Birth; I Hope Their Hair in Their 30s/40s/50s Is Still Blue, Purple, or Red' (using feminine pronouns). When I thought of that well-built man in his 40s wearing a tank top and the dance studio owner John, I wanted to change it to include both men and women.

The self is a strange loop; flat logic cannot explain it—we need the missing puzzle piece of art. Art is more important than truth because pure truth will crush you. Thus, we still laugh, dance, love, create, gossip, remaining both profound and lighthearted!

I retracted my mental energy and placed it back upon myself. Others have their own paths; I no longer intrude. I withdrew my emotions and interventions to keep my thinking clear. Thus, writing and updating my 'Personal User Manual' has become urgent.

Xuyan is a textbook example of social success: a PhD from a top 985 university, becoming an R&D Director immediately after graduating. But what comes after that?

Tibai said: At that moment, I just knew directly that if I didn't get a divorce, I wouldn't be able to go on living.

You are so much like a writer—taking happy photos with every reader, looking into everyone's eyes with sincerity and saying personalized words. Yet, there is a pervasive sense of sadness and solitude.

Do you have OCD? Then I must congratulate you! Because you can joyfully and freely 'squander' your time in pursuit of perfection, with no expectation of reward.

Deconstructing how language silently scripts our life trajectory.

Q: Can daily reading really improve writing skills? A: No. You’d better just start writing—write about anything you feel is worth writing.

Someone asked Steve Jobs: 'How do you know which direction is the right one?' Jobs fell silent and then replied: 'Ultimately, it comes down to taste.'